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Southeast Asia
Tropical Crossroads





A Tapestry of Traditions
Why
The Why, When & How to visit...
It's easy to see why Southeast Asia is a Bucket List destination for so many people. It's unique & special for its stunning scenery, beautiful temples & shrines, and a variety of cultures. Known for its welcoming hospitality, delicious food & great value, Southeast Asia continues to attract visitors from all over the world to experience a taste of its flavors & traditions. This guide specifically focuses on the 4 destinations in Southeast Asia that I visited: i) Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, ii) Bali, Indonesia, iii) Hanoi & Halong Bay, Vietnam, and iv) Phuket & Phi Phi Islands, Thailand. These provided a great mix of city & nature and sampling of what SE Asia has to offer.
When
How
How to reach Southeast Asia will vary greatly depending on the starting point. Flights from North America mostly go west over the Pacific Ocean and take ~14-16 hours direct from the west coast. Flights from Europe & Africa fly east and take up to ~13 hours direct. Google Explore is super useful to compare flight options from a destination to a region. For a trip to multiple destinations, a multi-city flight works well plus one-way tickets.
When to visit is one of the most difficult pieces to decide since each area experiences varying weather at a given point. The Northern countries have monsoon season June - Oct, while the Southern countries experience rainy season Oct -Mar, so April & May are the driest months, but also the hottest. I visited at the end of Jan into Feb and while it was still rainy season in Indonesia, enjoyed mostly sunny, nice weather with fewer crowds.
Most, if not all countries in Southeast Asia require a visa and/or Digital Arrival Card to enter. Of the 4 countries in Southeast Asia I visited, a tourist visa was needed for Indonesia & Vietnam and a Digital Arrival Card was needed for Malaysia, Indonesia & Thailand (all linked here). Both forms more or less request the same type of information like the traveler's passport information, travel dates, and accommodations. The main difference is the visa requires a fee, which at the time of writing in March 2026 was USD $25-35 for single entry, and the Digital Arrival Card is free and needs to be completed within 72 hours of entry (not sooner).
The Indonesia tourist visa also required proof on onward travel (uploading a .pdf of an outbound flight booking), prior to having permission to enter the country, but was an instant approval. The Indonesia entry process was almost completely digital and seamless. The Vietnam tourist visa took a few business days for approval (in my case 4 days), but can take longer and has more specifications. The visa is specifically valid for the dates entered and requires the port of entry & departure.
I chose to apply for a visa for Vietnam with a wider range than my intended travel dates to provide a buffer on both ends in case travel plans changed. The application also requests intended travel dates & duration, so it's clear which day you plan to arrive & leave, but are applying for more time just in case within the 90 day tourist limit. There are stories of long wait times to clear Vietnam airport immigration and options to pay private companies a fee for access to an express lane. I opted to book this service through Klook, which ended up not being needed for a late evening arrival time, but didn't want to chance it.
Once in each country, Grab is the predominant ride share app that's easy & typically cost effective to use. Most travel tips recommend avoiding taxis in Kuala Lumpur, which I followed and used Grab within the city, which worked flawlessly. All of the airports were 45-90 minutes away from the city center depending on traffic.
Where
to stay...
Deciding which countries and specifically which destinations to visit in Southeast Asia is the most difficult part of the trip planning, because there are so many incredible options to choose from. After a lot of consideration, I ultimately chose to visit in order: i) Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, ii) Bali, Indonesia, iii) Hanoi & Halong Bay, Vietnam, and iv) Phuket & Phi Phi Islands, Thailand and suggest the following hotels in each:
1) Moxy Kuala Lumpur - Located near Chintatown, the Moxy Kuala Lumpur recently opened in April 2025 after transforming a 1970s Oriential Bank building into a 21 story, 320 room hotel. The hotel has the typical Moxy designed room & decor that's fun & efficient for the space, along with a casual restaurant, cafe, outdoor pool & lounge, and fitness room. The lobby doubles as a lounge with a foosball table and tons of seating space to hang out. The hotel is conveniently located a short walk from the Central Market, Chinatown and stunning government building. More information with pictures and the ability to book through Hotels.com is available here.
2) Emana Akatara - Emana Akarta is a stunning 26 room hotel in Ubud, Bali featuring large, spacious rooms with tall ceilings & balconies overlooking a picturesque rice field. The hotel has an open-air restaurant servicing the most delicious food with specialty dinners & entertainment on select evenings. The hotel booking includes a made-to-order multi-course breakfast that's incredible. There's a relaxing outdoor pool and lovely spa providing a well curated list of traditional Balinese spa services, along with a yoga studio next door. The staff is incredibly attentive & hospitable. The hotel is located about a 20 min drive from Ubud town, but provides daily shuttles to & from town at select times. The only downside is the hotel is located down a rocky road that's bumpy to reach, but transportation was able to reach and Grabs arrived within a few minutes. More information with pictures and the ability to book through Hotels.com is available here.
3) La Sinfonia del Rey Hotel & Spa - La Sinfonia makes a guest feel welcome from the moment they enter the door with a pleasant check-in process while enjoying tea & cookies. The rooms vary in size and position, so some are more compact with limited natural light, however manageable for a short stay. The hotel has a great restaurant servicing a lovely breakfast buffet, plus made-to-order options, included in the room rate. There's also a fabulous rooftop bar for food & drinks overlooking Hanoi. The hotel is well-located near the lake and on a wider street than most, surrounded by shops, cafes & restaurants. More information with pictures and the ability to book through Hotels.com is available here.
4) The Beachfront Hotel Phuket - The Beachfront Hotel is located on the southeast part of Phuket in a section called Rawai. It has spacious studio rooms with a kitchenette and balcony overlooking the water facing east for sunrise. It has an indoor restaurant serving an included breakfast buffet in the morning and an outdoor beachfront restaurant serving dinner & drinks in the evening with live music on certain nights. The hotel is located off a busy road like most of Phuket, however is still quiet with conveniences nearby. The beach is walkable, but not one for lounging or swimming, however has a boat business on property operating private longtail boats for hire from the hotel. More information with pictures and the ability to book through Hotels.com is available here.
What
Do
to...
1) Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia - Kuala Lumpur is a developed, fairly clean, vibrant, large city that showcases it's mix of Malaysian, Chinese & Indian cultures and corresponding religions across Islam, Buddhism & Hinduism. Its highlights include the nearby Batu Caves, Petronas Twin Towers, the main temples & mosques, Chinatown, Little India, and other markets & neighborhoods.
A private half-day tour was a great way to see the highlights of Kuala Lumpur in 4 hours. The tour included pick-up & drop-off at a place of your choosing starting at 9am or 2pm. First stop is the famous Batu Caves featuring 272 colorful steps to the beautiful limestone caves that houses Hindu shrines. The main attraction is the impressive 140 ft tall (42.7 meters) gold Lord Murugan statue - one of the tallest Hindu deity statues in the world that represents the Hindu god of war, victory, wisdom & courage.
The tour then proceeds to the pretty Thean Hou Temple, a Buddhist temple followed by the massive National Mosque of Islam that can hold up to 15,000 people surrounded by 13 acres of gardens. After visiting these places of worship representing the 3 main religions of Malaysia, the tour continues to Little India, Chinatown and the Central Market for an opportunity to eat & shop. Overall, the tour was a great efficient way to see the highlights of Kuala Lumpur in a short amount of time with private transportation and very reasonably priced too. More information with the ability to book through Viator is available here.
The other highlight that this tour didn't cover is seeing the famous Petronas Twin Towers. The towers were once the tallest towers in the world and an impressive sight to see particularly at night when they light up the sky. There's a fountain show that takes place in the KLCC Park in front of the towers each night starting after sunset that's a nice way to see the towers. Another great spot to see the towers is from the nearby W Hotel WET Deck that has unobstructed views from seating around its pool.
2) Bali, Indonesia - Next stop Bali! Bali is unlike anywhere else I've visited before. It's incredibly beautiful, special & unique for its ornate temples, serene rice fields surrounded by lush landscapes, and culture that make it feel so peaceful & magical.
There's a lot to see & do in Bali, but if you're looking for a fantastic, full-day tour featuring the highlights of Ubud, look no further than this full-day, private tour. This tour is filled with all the highlights of Ubud in one efficient full-day with a great mix of activities. The tour starts with pick-up from your accommodations and heads to the Sacred Monkey Forest Sanctuary, which is home to over 700 Balinese long-tailed monkeys. The sanctuary has beautiful, lush grounds to walk through and observe the monkeys. Then it's off to the Tegalalang Rice Terrace with stunning scenery of the rice terraces to walk through, along with ride attractions with picture ops like the famous Bali swing, plus zip lining, including a superman, magic carpet & bicycle versions of zip lining.
The tour then stopped for lunch at a lovely restaurant with outdoor seating surrounded by rice fields. The second half of the day was when the tour really got good with visits to a large waterfall surrounded by serene lush beauty with a hut serving drinks & fruit, including fresh coconuts. Then it was off to my favorite part - a holy water temple where visitors can take part in a water purification ceremony, which I really enjoyed. Importantly, the tour goes to the far less touristy water temple, that was practically empty when we were there. The tour ends with a tasting of 14 flavored coffees & tea, including an option to purchase the infamous Kopi Luwak coffee to try, overlooking stunning scenery at a Bali coffee plantation. It was the perfect end to an incredible day! More information with the ability to book through Viator is available here.
Another highlight of visiting Bali was a day trip to neighboring Penida Island. This private full-day tour offers accommodation pick-up & drop-off, transportation to the harbor & back, ferry ticket to Penida Island, and transportation around the island. The tour provides the ability to see the breathtaking Diamond Beach and spend time at stunning Atuh Beach in a secluded cove on the less busy, but further east side of the island. It was one of the best days of the trip and worth the travel time to get there.
However, the roads in Penida Island are extremely bumpy and is a 60-90 min drive from the harbor to the east side each way to keep in mind and maybe bring anti-nauseous medicine for the drive and/or fast ferry. I didn't have any issues, but the road was uncomfortable to drive on, however the destination made it worth it for me. Another tip is to buy a drink to sit with a small group on the upper level of the ferry boat that's open-air instead of being scrunched into tight rows with the masses in the enclosed lower section. More information with the ability to book through Viator is available here.
3) Hanoi, Vietnam - Shifting from Bali to Hanoi, Vietnam was a stark contrast. Hanoi has smog that hovers over the city, but lifts higher during the Summer from the warm air. Visiting in Winter, the smog didn't look or feel dirty or have difficulty breathing, it's more of a fog that adds additional ambiance to Hanoi. For a capital city of almost 9 million people, who mostly ride motor bikes, Hanoi was very calm & organized IMO.
Hanoi is a walkable city in terms of distances, however the sidewalks can be tight and filled with miscellaneous stuff. A highlight of Hanoi is experiencing its famous Train Street where trains pass through a narrow passageway surrounded by cafes & bars several times a day. The trains were not passing through in early Feb 2026 with talk of it stopping completely in the near future, but TBD. However, the area is still very picturesque and worth visiting without a train passing through.
Hanoi serves as a convenient launching point for two UNESCO World Heritage Sites: Ninh Binh and Halong Bay. Ninh Bihn is considered the Halong Bay on land, because it has similar large limestone structures and caves, only on land with a river flowing through, instead of a bay. This full-day small-group tour was a wonderful way to easily visit Ninh Binh from Hanoi.
It includes a variety of activities, including visiting a historic temple, bike ride through rice fields, extensive Vietnamese buffet lunch, and traditional bamboo boat ride through the Tam Coc river surrounded by beautiful scenery. The last stop was to the Mua Caves where visitors can walk up 500 steps to the top of Lying Dragon Mountain for scenic views of the Tam Coc river below and pagodas in the distance. The steps are made of natural stone and have eroded over time, so are not all even to be careful using. More information on the tour with the ability to book through Viator is available here.
Taking an overnight cruise through Halong Bay or the lesser known, but very similar Lan Ha Bay is a great way to experience more of the culture & beauty of Vietnam. Most of the cruise itineraries are very similar offering 1 or 2 night stays with similar activities. The cruises are timed to be exactly 24 or 48 hours from the time you leave to the time you return to the harbor (noon to noon). The cruises offer a full schedule of optional activities, including a group boat ride & kayaking through the bay, swimming, cooking class, squid fishing, tai chi, and karaoke.
The cruise also includes all meals, including an impressive multi-course welcome lunch & dinner the first day with a buffet breakfast & lunch the second day. Providing a great opportunity to try a variety of Vietnamese food. There's a top deck with a bar for hanging out between activities and guest rooms have a private balcony too. After looking at a lot of options, I selected a 2 day, 1 night cruise with Sena Cruises and was happy with the quality of the boat, food, & itinerary. The guide & staff were top notch too! There are slightly more luxurious options for higher prices, but I was happy with this choice for the price-point. More information with the ability to book through Viator is available here.
4) Phuket, Thailand - Phuket provides a nice mix of what Thailand has to offer - nice beaches, temples, markets, elephant sanctuary. It also served as a convenient launching point to reach the Phi Phi & other neighboring islands. However, in hindsight I would have preferred to spend more time on the smaller, prettier islands. There are a variety of Phuket highlights tours, but chose this small-group tour that combined a tour of Phuket town, famous Buddhist Chalong temple, Bukit Elephant Park, Big Buddha (although close proximity was limited at the time), and lunch. At the elephant park, guests have the opportunity to feed the elephants and take pictures nearby. It was a nice mix of activities and only half a day starting at noon. More information with the ability to book is available through Viator here.
From Phuket, reaching the Phi Phi Islands & nearby islands like Koh Hey with Banana Beach is feasible for the day, but recommend at least an overnight, if not more time on Phi Phi. Banana Beach is a tourist destination with several large group tours offered to it, however is also reachable through private transportation. We arranged a private longtail boat for about USD $60 for a full-day excursion directly from & back to our hotel. Once on Banana Beach, there are a few visitor options, including one with free access with an F&B credit to use at the restaurants, food stands & bars.
The Phi Phi Islands, specifically Maya Bay on Ko Phi Phi Lee (the smaller of the two Phi Phi Islands), became popular as the filming location for the movie The Beach with Leonardo DiCaprio. To reach the Phi Phi Islands, there are a variety of tour & transportation options, most of which include a small fast ferry. I opted to take a large ferry boat with Sea Angel Cruise that takes longer, but steadier with room to roam, an onboard stand selling drinks & snacks, and open-air top deck to enjoy the scenery. I recommend only booking the ferry tickets, and not the pick-up option, and getting there on your own using Grab.
As a day trip, the timing is a bit too rushed with only a few hours on Phi Phi (specifically the larger island Ko Phi Phi Don), but can be booked for round-trip tickets on separate days. Once on Ko Phi Phi Don, there are restaurants, hotels, shops & beaches within walking distance of the harbor. Longtail boats serve as water taxis to visit other parts of the island for as little as USD $4 per person and typically wait for 8 passengers to board before departing. The Phi Phi Islands are extremely picturesque and that quintessential look & feel of Thailand that are worth visiting or something similar.
Eat
Each country has its own distinct food. The national dish of Malaysia is Nasi Lemak (coconut rice with sambal - chili paste). Similarly, the national dish of Indonesia is Nasi Goreng (fried rice). Vietnam is known for its pho (noodle soup) and banh mi (sandwich). In Thailand, aside from popular Pad Thai, Thai oysters & fresh grilled fish with this delicious Thai sauce were top highlights.
Drink
Each country visited had at least one beer made in the country to try, except for Malaysia, which imports Singapore's Tiger beer. My favorites were Bintang in Indonesia, Halong Sapphire in Vietnam, and Leo in Thailand. Non-alcoholic highlights were Thai tea & Vietnamese egg coffee.
*If of legal drinking age to drink responsibly
Wear
Colorful casual
Watch
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Listen
"Thailand Says Hi"
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